Masturbation At The Age Of 19

Hello everyone, today, the House of Huy blog will introduce to everyone a new category that is delicate and difficult to tell. Of course, in today's society, everything can be said openly to everyone around without fear of anything. Platforms such as podcasts, YouTube, blogs, or TikTok allow users to share those stories freely but not provoke. However, somewhere, those delicate and difficult stories are being banned or will be banned later. The delicate and difficult stories I am telling here relate to sex and 18+ topics. It's a story I've been mulling over for a few months.

I have thought carefully before recommending this category to readers because not everyone can listen to and read stories related to sex. As I said above, those are delicate and difficult stories to tell. I don't think everyone has a good memory of having sex with someone, or even that might be horrible memories I don’t dare discuss here. But rest assured, everyone. I will talk about sex carefully and properly. I am not an expert or a good person in lovemaking. I want to use this category to send you 18+ stories of my own experience; those are funny or tragic, or naive stories; they could be stories my friends told me that I am allowed to recount in this category. I want to tell 18+ stories in the Love Life column because I share many private life stories. However, this time it will be different. I wanted to dedicate a column to telling stories related to sex so that some people would listen. I hope everyone will support this new category.

So what is the name of this category? I think of a lot of different names. But then, one day, I heard the story of Adam and Eve again. Because listening to the temptation of the snake (the embodiment of the devil) lured them to eat the forbidden fruit from the Tree of Knowledge, upon learning this, God got angry and kicked them out of heaven. Since then, I have been drawn into the story of Adam and Eve, even though I am not a Christian. I see the forbidden fruit and the snake as something that represents temptation, fascination, and passion in every human being. We are completely unable to restrain ourselves from such things. Of course, we can, but we don't always have the power to resist temptation. The same goes for sex. Every time the lust of love invites us. Me too. And I will call this 18+ category “Apple and Serpens.” With this story, I will try to share an 18+ story a week with all readers. Thank you very much!

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I often ask myself why I must wait until 19 to masturbate. In contrast, my peers started masturbating at the age of 12, even younger. Maybe I can answer the above question because I'm a kid who thinks masturbation is a bad thing, something disgusting, and a sin. Because of those thoughts, I was afraid to masturbate many times. I don't even dare touch that part of me alone. Masturbation is a form of male ejaculation. If I say wait until I was 19 years old, I began to ejaculate; it would not be true. There is a concept that I later learned about called wet dream. This means that while you are sleeping, your sperm will overflow without touching it. This is the case in men when you dream of something that makes your penis erect and shoot out. I still vividly remember the first time I had a wet dream. I was in 11th grade then, around 2 am, and I woke up because I felt the side of my underwear was wet. I thought I was "bed-wetting.” I ran to the bathroom and took off my pants to check. But it wasn't urine; some white, sticky liquid stuck to my underwear. I freaked out because I had never seen that thing before. I still thought I was sick. I was about to run into my mother's circle to tell her. But seeing that it was too early, let me sleep and tell her in the morning. I wiped my spot with toilet paper, went to my room to change into new underwear, and returned to bed. The next morning, I went out to find my mother cooking breakfast for me. I told my mother that not a single detail was missing last night. My mother seemed to be very indifferent to what I said. She did not panic at all. It must be because she is a doctor that she can grasp someone's illness or health to tell my mother. My mother told me about wet dreaming in men and why. My mother advised me not to worry too much, to think positively, to watch comedies, and limit stress or negative thoughts. Since then, I no longer have a wet dream.

I didn’t think much about that either. When I was 19, I saw a video about male masturbation. It's been a long time, so I don't remember the full content of the video. I only remember what would happen if I didn't masturbate. It seemed to make the ability to ejaculate when making love later on or suffer from dermatological diseases. I panicked once more. I am very afraid of myself getting some sex-related disease. The video doesn't mention the disease, but I’d start getting it in my head if I didn't masturbate now. It is infertility. Anyone with that disease is like living in misery for the rest of their lives. That's when I decided to masturbate. But I don't know how to masturbate properly. It's easy to say masturbation, but how to do it is another story. I watched a bunch of videos on how to masturbate properly. All those videos are just theories and no visual aids for me.

I have a gay friend that I've known since college. His name is N. I won't say her real name. Friend N. knew me when we were in the same English class. Friend N. was a very open-minded person with a very modern mindset. He was not afraid or did not care what the people around him thought. He freely shared with me his "victory" in bed with someone. I really enjoyed listening to him talk. I reached out to him to ask about masturbation. He laughed and said I was too naive never to masturbate. I was also embarrassed because what he said was true. Maybe I was too old-fashioned to think about masturbation. N. told me that he would show me how to masturbate. He made an appointment with me at his house and would do it right before me. I agree. That night, N. started to take off his pants in front of me. I saw his place. He started putting some lotion in his hand, then grabbed it and made it hard. Then, he moved his hand skillfully and steadily. I could guess he's very well-versed in this. In less than 5 minutes, that part of him started to shoot up a vertical stream of semen. I rolled my eyes because it was the first time I saw that scene. I felt so strange and wonderful. He groaned with pleasure and pleasure. My penis was also strangely erect when I watched him do it. When he was done, he wiped it off with a tissue. He asked me how I felt. I didn't even know what to say at that time. But I was already starting to like this masturbation. He approached me and told me to give it a try. I didn't hesitate to take my pants off, either. He asked me if I wanted his help. I was curious how he would help me. Or is…. That is exactly what I had in mind. He told me to lie back and relax. He did the same thing he did before. I began to form a strange pleasure; my mouth began to moan with joy that I did not realize then how happy I was; there was an intense lust. And like a loaded gun, I began to shoot out the first streams of sperm due to masturbation. I feel lightheaded, and all the troubles are resolved instantly. After that night, I opened up about masturbation.

Actually, masturbation is not as harmful as people say. Every time you masturbate, your body produces more sperm. Masturbation is only beneficial, not embarrassing. But you should also masturbate in moderation. You should masturbate 3-4 times a week, not every day. If you do not have a lover, masturbation daily is also normal. If you have a lover that masturbates too much, it will make every time you love your lover; you will lose interest and not be in the mood to make love. I masturbate 3-4 times a week after coming home from the gym because then I will have the energy to masturbate. Now masturbation seems like a form of release from my mood for the day. So what do I do to get in the mood to masturbate? This also depends. I would normally watch, but videos can stimulate that part of me. But sometimes I don't need it because I use a vibrator. Exactly. My friend N. told me to get a vibrator to make masturbation more effective. I don't understand how to use that vibrator. My friend told me to put the device in his place so that it stimulates itself without using his hand. Now I sometimes use the vibrator instead of my hands. After all, using this machine also has its advantages. Dear reader, masturbation is a normal thing that anyone can do. So if anyone has been like me that masturbation is wrong, then drop those thoughts and do it.